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Getting Your Kids Back On Schedule For School
It’s that time of year again! Time for school to start and the fun (and sometimes chaos) of summer to end. There are parts of us which want to continue with the summer routine of waking up when we want or being woke up by the kids, and the other part of us knows that…
Read MoreKick it Over the Cliff – Letting Go of Things That Aren’t Ours to Bear
Holding onto issues that are not ours ends up being toxic to our everyday lives. At the end of a visualization exercise that I do with my clients in session, I often hear them express surprise at the emotional alleviation that they experience. This visualization helps them to separate what is theirs from what is…
Read MoreBetrayal & Blame
When a marriage is ending, people tend to try and find logical reasons why. Even loving people tend to try and find logical reasons, often asking questions that can sometimes do more harm than good. When a marriage ends due to betrayal, often the betrayed partner is asked questions that allude to them being to…
Read MoreWhat is Trauma, Really?
Trauma is a word that is thrown around a lot these days. “I was so traumatized when they were out of navel oranges at the grocery store.” “I feel traumatized because I just found out my husband is having an affair.” “My son fell off his bike and skinned his knee, and I’m afraid he…
Read MoreHow Does Unresolved Trauma Contribute to Anxiety and Depression?
Often when we think about the word “trauma”, we think of something deeply distressing, a disturbing experience, or a horrible injury. We don’t always associate it on a smaller scale and therefore don’t recognize the ways that traumatic events can continue to affect our daily lives. As humans, our natural tendency is to avoid risk…
Read MoreHealing Trauma Using Hypnotherapy
Have you ever broken a bone? If not, let me walk you through the process. If it’s not immediately obvious that it’s broken, you usually don’t know that something is wrong until it starts to swell and bruising is visible. Once you’ve determined that you need to see a doctor, they’ll ask, “what happened to…
Read MoreDark, Dreaded Depression
Depression. It is a heavy word that everyone knows, and nearly everyone experiences during their life. But what is it exactly? Is being really sad depression? Is lacking motivation depression? If someone is depressed, is there anything that can be done that will really help? And where does depression come from? There are some basic…
Read MoreNew Podcast on EMDR and Trauma
I had the privilege of interviewing our very own Steve Jones, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapy, who is also an expert on EMDR. EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, is a well researched successful psychotherapeutic approach to treating trauma as well as other emotional distress and disturbing life events. While it sounds strange at first,…
Read MoreNarcissism- When it’s more than just selfishness.
Have you ever met someone who utterly confused you, one moment seeming to be sincere in their relationship with you, then at the next turn leaving you to feel disconnected, emotionally exhausted, and used? What about someone who appeared to have good intentions in working with you, but when the “goal” was met, not acknowledging…
Read MoreWhy You Probably Shouldn’t Use Insurance for Counseling
There are many things that insurance is helpful for: car accidents, cancer, broken bones, etc. Counseling (therapy) is something that you should consider never using your insurance for unless absolutely necessary. Here are just a few reasons to consider: First, insurance companies require that everyone be given a diagnosis of a mental health disorder in…
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